I know how hard divorce is so I wont joke this thread.

Here is my advice - read the books by this guy together as a couple....


http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/

 

on a real note marriage counseling kinda sucks. the both or one of you might get the feeling its worth proving the other is at fault..... thats how it was for me. unfortunately.

on a side note, maybe marraige counseling isnt the best thing. alot of times its outside influence that does the most harm in a relationship such as a bitch of a sister in law or maybe a mother in law who doesnt like you cuz her life sucks. stuff like that.

marraige counseling also is not an easy or fast fix. in some cases it might make you or your partner decide things are not right.

my best advice is use a little physcology in dealing with your marraige problems. buy some flowers "consistantly". cook dinner and watch a movie once a week. and dont be a douche and just do sweet stuff after an arguement.... it dont work.

go on a cruise. go up to atlantic city for a weekend. take her out to the beach or do something that you did when you dated and realized you loved her.

oh and another thing....

get the fuck off of vadriven and do something for your girl.....lol

 

My wife and I went here and it worked out great!

http://www.christianpsychotherapy.com/locations.html

Ask for Dr. Wayne Smith. You can read up about him on the staff page.
He's only at the location on Independance Blvd, at Town Center.

Good luck, and my wife and I will say a prayer for you and your wife.

 

Don't have any advice for a marriage counselor, but I will keep yall in my prayers. Best of luck to you, hope everything works out.

 

good luck. mine wanted to go to a counsiler, she told my wife things that needed to be done and what do you know all that went out the window.

we go to a place here in elizabeth city (when we go) its called pathways counsiling.

 

hahahaha awesome, i love it

 

i second this statement....and +rep

 

They are good books.

 

 

I don't think Matt Foley will be any help. And I thank everyone for their genuine advice/well wishes. And I hope the people that joke a thread like this aren't as classless as they present themselves on the internet.